一個普通不過的動作  – ‘R’ 背脊，令我今日sweet咗成日。

上午，同兩隻小豬玩緊，大豬同我講話背脊好痕，要我幫佢’R'吓。佢皮膚比較乾，好多時都會話痕，但通常會自己’R'，又或者我會叫佢搽D cream，都會好D。今日我都有叫佢搽 cream，但佢叫我幫佢’R'，no problem!

‘R’ ‘R’ 吓佢話好舒服，唔俾我「收手」。佢原本係「立正」俾我’R'，但我舉手舉到有D攰，就叫佢趴在我腳上。佢一趴，就趴咗成十分鐘。全程話好舒服，不停甜笑，又叫我’R'到100下先停，仲約我再’R'。好久冇同D豬仔咁close，sweet 到漏油。

阿仔，你開聲，媽媽「仆倒」嚟幫你再’R'背脊！

在香港這大城市裡生活，好容易有呢個錯覺：錢 ，真係萬能嫁！

當你趕時間，又或者想舒服D，俾多少少錢坐的士，既舒適又節省不少時間，爽！

當你揹個名牌手袋，登時自信心返哂嚟，勁！

當你周不時換最新手提電話，個D羨慕嘅眼光，嘩!

如果你有部跑車，仲更加不得了。朋友呀，朋友個朋友呀，女呀，排住隊同你friend!

但係，有冇嘢錢買唔到嫁？有，最老土個樣…

健康！唔洗多講。有好多錢，但成日瞓响張床望住個天花板，要錢嚟做乜？

你跟住可能會話，仲有親情都係。真係？你肯定？但我開始懷疑，錢係可以買到親情嫁。你有冇見過D人豐衣足食但會為錢嘈交？係嫌D後生俾D心意唔夠多。跟住就玩黑面，玩針對，都幾死火。有錢就笑番，friend番哂，唉！

仲有，當你富貴時，親戚D面口好D嫁 。但當你閉翳時，佢地個樣仲閉翳過你，慌死會問佢借咁。

因此，我相信，唔係，係堅信，一句响電影聽到的金句，好啱聽：有錢唔係萬能，但冇錢，就真係萬萬不能！

又名「冧樓」。 最近應該冇香港人唔識嘅中文字。就是係唔識中文字，只得四歲的仔仔，見到報紙、雜誌上的相片，都會大叫，「媽媽、冧樓呀！」

再見到母校嘅「鬼樹」攪完一大輪以後，又話要斬，仲要係即刻個隻。

兩者共通點都係死得不明不白。

哈！原來生命真係好脆弱，估唔到，更加掌握唔到。連一棵樹也我地都幫唔到，我地仲點幫自己呀？

從幾時開始，我地嘅生命變得咁灰嫁？

When you get into fights or arguments, do you always feel that you are the one who is right and everyone else is wrong? Why is that you are the only one who has made all the sacrifices and everyone else is just a stupid idiot?

I just want to tell my friends here that, when you get into fights or arguments, take a deep breath, take a step back, and take a look at the whole situation again – why did things end up this way? Is there a better alternative to the current mess? Try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and look at the whole thing again. You may be able to see something different.

Things don’t have to go ugly when we fight. Try to be civilized and find ways out to settle things in peace. Afterall, it is not worth it to be mad at anyone or anything.

Why did people get married in the first place?

Let us walk through the whole process again:

1. We were alone and ‘dry.’

2. We started dating.

3. We had a feeling that we couldn’t be with the other persons enough, so we decided to get married (or live together).

4. Well, people get married and…

There are usually two possible outcomes:

A. They live happily ever after;

or

B. Something went wrong and they started to loathe each other, then came DIVORCE.

What went wrong? Did someone change? Did the environment we were in change? Why did we move from love to hatred?

The thing is, when people start fighting, things get ugly. There will be finger-pointing, he said – she said, name callings, etc. The worst is people would say things they did not mean to. Then things go downhill from that point, even to a point of no return.  As we always say this in Chinese: you won a fight, but you lost your marriage. Was it really worth it?

So next time, please think twice before you get into a fight with your partner.