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When you get into fights or arguments, do you always feel that you are the one who is right and everyone else is wrong? Why is that you are the only one who has made all the sacrifices and everyone else is just a stupid idiot?

I just want to tell my friends here that, when you get into fights or arguments, take a deep breath, take a step back, and take a look at the whole situation again – why did things end up this way? Is there a better alternative to the current mess? Try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and look at the whole thing again. You may be able to see something different.

Things don’t have to go ugly when we fight. Try to be civilized and find ways out to settle things in peace. Afterall, it is not worth it to be mad at anyone or anything.

10 – started a new job – part-time teaching. I have met a lot of funky students. I love this job!
9 – continued my previous job – full-time mom – it is getting harder and harder. Being a full-time mom is a job that requires communication skills, excellent time management, never-ending energy, and much more. I love this job even more!
8 – met a ringpoche and he has made a difference in my life. Thank you.
7 – My computer has taken an early Christmas and New year vacation – it has stopped working properly since the beginning of December.
6 – started blogging – what a pleasurable activity to vent.
5 – Roy started kindergarten – so exciting!
4 – surgery – painful and costly, but I should feel a lot better in the years to come.
3 – Steve made me a few handbags…they are all awesome! I am expecting more in 2010!
2 – my two boys are getting healthier and cuter everyday. They even started fighting, for anything. Keep up the good work, boys!

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The number ONE item for the year 2009 is…
1 – We are all still here, and hope things will get better in 2010!!!

Happy New Year to all of you out there! May good health be with you, always!