To the Chinese, being pregnant means a lot to the ancestry. All of a sudden, the moms-to-be become the center of attention in any family gatherings. Everyone will tell the expectant mothers what she can / should eat. At the same time, advices were given as to what NOT to eat. Different food is recommended mostly based on different culture. I would like to talk about my own experience, which is based on a Chinese culture.

First and foremost, I would like to remind all of you that a well-balanced diet is very important to the expectant mothers in any culture. This would include meat, vegetable, seafood, and fruits. Most of you already knew the good and bad of these food, so I am not going to repeat what others are talking about. Instead, I will talk about things that Chinese expectant mothers were told not to eat (and I think I have tried ALL of them).

To start with, I have to give all of you some simple background on Chinese medicine, more specifically, food from a Chinese medicine standpoint. To the Chinese, foods are considered cold, hot, or neutral. The cold food will help you to recover from hot symptoms, such as eating cold food when your body is overheated; and vice versa. This way, our bodies are kept in a delicate balance from a Chinese medicine perspective. In this light, there are certain foods that the expectant mothers should stay away from.

Banana and other fruits
Chinese expectant mothers are forbidden to eat bananas. We were told that it is a ‘cold’ food, and will easily cause miscarriage. Well, I can tell you that it is not true. Banana is rich in potassium, which is good for the babies; and is a good source of energy for the fatigued expectant mother. The fact that banana is considered a laxative maybe viewed as something that can cause miscarriage. But honey! They are two different passages. The same goes with watermelon. Don’t worry about eating bananas or watermelon, as long as you don’t eat too much.
The other fruit that I was told not to eat was Lychee! To a certain extent, it is true. Lychee is considered a ‘hot’ fruit, eating too much of it is not good for anyone. But people were scared that eating too much of it would cause the babies to have scaly skins, like those of lychees. Well, I don’t know if this is true or not. But I did have a few and my boys are fine! One thing that I can confirm is that it is a really hot fruit and eating too much of it did give me acne! To the Chinese, ‘you are what you eat.’ So, Chinese would stay away from food that they are wary of the unknown consequences, such as lychee and meat of snake, as both of these have scaly skins.

In any case, just keep in mind that too much of any good things will never do anyone any good! So long that you eat a bit of everything, you are all in good shape1

In my next blog entry, I will talk about other foods that I was told to stay away from simply because I was a Chinese!

Unfortunately, we do get sick when we are pregnant. The first question you ask yourself might be: what kind of medication should I take? My advice to you is DO NOT TAKE over-the-counter medication casually. If you read the labels on medications, they will usually tell you it is not safe to take them if you are pregnant. So, do consult your doctors, and let your doctors know that you are pregnant (if it is not that visible), he or she will take good care of you.

Some of you may be hesitant to take the medications that your doctors prescribed. Please be assured that your doctors will only prescribe medications that are considered safe to you and your babies. And my doctor used to tell me that the risk of not taking the medication on my baby was actually greater than taking the medication. If my sickness continued and if I did not get better, it would hurt my baby much further. My advice? Take the prescribed medication, take LOTS of REST and drink PLENTY of WATER! That’s the key to a speedy recovery.

Some of you may still want to avoid medication completely. If so, you may try the following to relieve your symptoms.

Common Cold

  • Drink plenty of water
  • Get lots of rest
  • Orange juice or juices with vitamin C
  • Fruits and vegetables with well balanced vitamins
  • Gargle warm salt water to relieve the scratchy throat
  • Salt water (saline) nasal spray to clear the nasal passage. The non-medicated ones are safe to use and you can use as often as you wish.
  • If you have a humidifier (warm or cool mist are both fine), use one. Moistening the room air is always good for your cold.
  • If you cough, have some lemon – hot water. Add a few pieces of lemon into a cup of hot water. Drink it slowly. It will help relieve your cough.

Fever

  • Again, water will perform the magical touch. Have plenty of it!
  • Dress accordingly. You do not want to get over-heated.
  • Aspirin is not recommended as it is considered unsafe to the unborn babies. So, if you are to take medication, ibuprofen and acetaminophen are your safe bet. Ibuprofen is only recommended up to the end of the second trimester, while acetaminophen is considered safe throughout the whole term. And the same old advice, DO NOT take any medication without doctor’s consultation. And if symptoms persist, also let your doctors know.

Heartburn

There are a few Over-The-Counter antacids, such as Tums, Mylanta, Maalox, or Rolaids, are safer than others to take during pregnancy. If you are not sure what to take, again, consult your doctors.

Allergy

Allergens are all around – dusts, animal hair, cigarette smokes, polluted air…the list can go on. Unfortunately, almost all medications (except antihistiamines) that treat allergies are not safe to the mother nor the babies. Even the medicines you have been taking before your got pregnant might not be safe. Due to the tricky medication issue, the best thing to do is to AVOID allergens. Make sure your immediate is free from allergens; stay away from strong household chemicals; avoid being around smokers. If you nasal passage is blocked, the recommended way of clearing it is by spraying salt water (saline) nasal spray.

Among Chinese, there is a saying that pregnant women won’t get sick. It is actually NOT true. So, please take good care of yourself and avoid getting sick.

* Warning! Every attempt has been made to ensure accuracy of information provided. However, I shall not be responsible for any harm that you or any person may suffer as a result of using the information of this site.

Obviously, all women have to stay fit whenever. It is also important to stay fit when you are pregnant. Before we move on, please keep in mind of the following:
1. Avoid exercises that may cause you to fall from heights, e.g. ice-skating, skiing, riding on a real bike (stationary bikes are fine). This is because as you grow bigger, it is harder to keep yourself balanced. And obviously, falls are to be avoided.
2. Do not do exercises on your back (whether it is weight lifting or yoga), it would hurt yourself and your baby.
3. There are women who would go scuba diving. Although considered safe, there has not been conclusive studies on the effect of water pressure onto the moms-to-be and the babies. Therefore, think twice before you dive.

There are many exercises that you can do, try consider the following:
1. Low-impact aerobic exercises that would not strain your back are perfectly okay.
2. Some of you enjoy yoga and it is a great way to keep fit and strengthen your muscles. If possible, try to enroll in prenatal classes since they will know best what poses you should practice and avoid. Avoid hot yoga since you do not need to be overheated. Getting overheated is not good for pregnant women.
3. Weight lifting – sure, no problem. But please stay with lighter weights. Remember, do not weight lift on your back, it is not good for you nor the baby.
4. Cycling - stationary bikes are fine. Please ensure you are well supported when getting on and off in order not to fall. And if you grow too big and you do not feel comfortable cycling anymore, STOP! Also, do not attempt a real bike since you are less apt to react should accidents happen.
5. Jogging - consult your doctor before you start jogging
6. Walking - do lots of it. It helps you to relax and give you ample exercises at the same time.
7. It is actually not recommended to swim. There are concerns that you might get vaginal infection from the pool water or sea water, and it will in turn affect the baby. On the other hand, swimming can take a lot of the pressure off your back, especially in the second and third trimester. So, check with you OB before you go.

If you feel uncomfortable whenever you are exercising, slow down, and then stop. If you are ever in doubt, consult your doctor.

When you are pregnant – YOU ARE! I can testify that! The changes in my body might have made me a bit chubby, but I did glow everyday in every way!

Nevertheless, we still have to upkeep our beauty. But can you still go through your beauty routine – hair coloring, perm, facial, massage, etc? Let me tackle these one by one.

Facial - if it is simple basic/spa facial WITHOUT essential oils, it is okay to go, as long as there is no complicated machines landing on your face and neck.

Massage - it is really a good ideas to go for prenatal massages since the back of the moms-to-be are always under stress. However, make sure you go to a licensed practitioner who knows what he/she is doing. Also, please consult your doctor before getting a massage, since some doctors do not recommend their patients having one during the first trimester.

Hair treatments – Obviously you can have your routine haircut. However, try to stay away from perm and coloring. Although these treatments claimed to be relatively safe, I dare not to risk my baby’s health. Chemicals can enter our bloodstream during perming and coloring. You may say the amount is minute; however, there is no conclusive study that these treatments are 100% safe. So, stay away from them if possible. Come on! You can live without a perm or color for 9 months, I am sure!

Aromatherapy - studies have shown that some essential oils may have effects on the unborn babies. Therefore, stay away from them as well.

Manicure and pedicure – if you must go to professional salons to get your nails done, try to bring your own instruments. This will greatly reduce chances of getting infection using instruments that other customers use. In addition, ensure the place is well ventilated so you don’t inhale too much of the chemicals.

The bottom line: only go with the basics, nothing too fancy or exotic. After all, you have a natural glow, and it will last for 9 months, enjoy what nature brings you.

Ideally, you should have started taking folic acid (also known as vitamin B9) before getting pregnant. Folic acid is especially important in the first four weeks of your pregnancy, during which there will be rapid cell division and growth – specifically the development of the brain, skull, and spinal cord. That is also why you should start taking folic acid if you plan to get pregnant, because by the time you found out that you are pregnant, it would have past the four weeks.

A lack of folic acid / folate (the naturally occurring form) can result in many health problems. The most well-known is neural tube defects (NTD) in developing embryos. An NTD happens when there is an opening in the spinal cord or brain. With NTDs, the skull and/or vertebrae (back bones), brain and/or spinal cord are exposed. NTDs can cause life-long complications, depending on the severity. In the most severe cases, some babies won’t even last 24 hours after they are borned.

So, if you plan to get pregnant, consult your O.B. and have him/her prescribe the appropriate amount of folic acid to you.

Although taking folic acid does not automatically guarantee a birth-defect-free baby, it certainly reduces the possibility. It has been noted that the risk of toxicity from folic acid is quite low. This is because folate is a water soluble vitamin, i.e. it is regularly removed from the body through urine.

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